The ultimate checklist
To set the stage for discussions about money, come prepared. Here's what parents need to gather – and what kids need to ask.

NEW YORK (MONEY Magazine) - What parents need to gather:

  • Wills, powers of attorney and other estate-plan documents
  • List of assets, such as investments, home and investment properties, along with their value, plus a list of outstanding debts
  • Account numbers for bank, brokerage and mutual fund accounts
  • Deeds for the family house and other real estate
  • Social Security and Medicare cards (make photocopies)
  • Recent statements for any loans - mortgages, auto and personal loans and credit cards
  • Insurance policies - life, health, home, auto, long-term care
  • Contact information (name, address, phone number) for doctors, financial advisers and anyone else who might need to be contacted in an emergency
  • Forms listing current beneficiary designations for savings, investments, IRA, 401(k) and 403(b) accounts and company pensions

What kids need to ask:

  • Do you have a will? Has it been updated since 2000?
  • Do you have enough money to last you through retirement, between your Social Security benefits, your pensions and your savings?
  • Do you have a budget? Have you or has someone else calculated how much you can safely withdraw from your savings so your money lasts the rest of your life?
  • How are your retirement savings divvied up between stocks, bonds and mutual funds?
  • Where do you keep important financial information such as your will, bank and brokerage statements and tax returns?
  • Do you have a financial adviser? How did you meet this person, how long have you worked together and how is this person paid?
  • Have you made financial arrangements in the event you can no longer live independently? Have you considered long-term care insurance or moving into an assisted-living facility or continuing-care community?
  • Whom would you like to have make financial and medical decisions for you if you can no longer make them yourself?
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Most stock quote data provided by BATS. Market indices are shown in real time, except for the DJIA, which is delayed by two minutes. All times are ET. Disclaimer. Morningstar: © 2018 Morningstar, Inc. All Rights Reserved. Factset: FactSet Research Systems Inc. 2018. All rights reserved. Chicago Mercantile Association: Certain market data is the property of Chicago Mercantile Exchange Inc. and its licensors. All rights reserved. Dow Jones: The Dow Jones branded indices are proprietary to and are calculated, distributed and marketed by DJI Opco, a subsidiary of S&P Dow Jones Indices LLC and have been licensed for use to S&P Opco, LLC and CNN. Standard & Poor's and S&P are registered trademarks of Standard & Poor's Financial Services LLC and Dow Jones is a registered trademark of Dow Jones Trademark Holdings LLC. All content of the Dow Jones branded indices © S&P Dow Jones Indices LLC 2018 and/or its affiliates.